Holiday Season...

So this time of year is upon us once again. Spending time with our loved ones. So interesting the various conversations we have. For instance, one of my "cousins", we will call "Caesar" is feeling the pressure from his parents. Good looks, loads of money, strong, good build etc....Basically the damn boy is a GOLDEND CHILD! hahaha The world is at his feet. He has this young lady whom his parents are not for lack of a better word fond of. The father especially thinks he is too young to be settled down with ANY one lady. So he seeked my counsel. I was at a loss as to what to advise this young man...I see both arguments as very valid because there are alot of reasons why the young man doesn't agree with his father. So what to do? What to say? Well I basically advised that he keep in mind ALWAYS something that came home to roost for me myself this year: Loving Parents never want anything bad for their child; They worry and want to spare their children making decisions that may make them hurt. They might not always "get" or "understand" completely, but they might see something we don't consider in our choices. I don't know if I was any help, but we did have a nice long talk and in the end, I wish, hope and pray that it works out the best for everyone involved. ...Thoughts??

We come to the end of yet another year!!! I always try to mellow out, and take in the entire year and try to make resolutions based off what I want to try differently. This year started off sorta emotional. It was crazy the bs I tried this year. But in the end I hope I grew and matured from the negative experiences and I cherish the good times. I think my new mind set is to do whats most important to ME and not always consider others in the choices I make in 2008. I need to re-focus on attaining some goals and get more serious. I already got a momentum going for this year and I intend to step it up in 2008 even more so. Even LESS goofing off and social events than this year (Sorry guys!!! hahahaha), more volunteering, more studying, more grinding!! Cash Rules Everything Around Me :CREAM get the money baby! lol....It is what it is. No matter what tho, Love you guys!! I am thankful for all the true, genuine people in my life! And I wish everyoone prosperity, true love and happiness in 2008!
Xoxoxox~BLesS~xoxoxoX